Are You Where You Want to Be Or Still Getting There?

As an individual in the prime of their life, reflecting on where one stands in relation to their goals is a constant exercise. I, in my thirties, find myself at a fulfilling but not necessarily expected stage of life. Let me share my journey and outlook with you.

Current State of Mind

At this precise moment, I am where I need to be because I am living one of my prayers. My life is currently characterized by a profound sense of fulfillment, and despite the fact that I am not yet where I want to be five years from now, I am genuinely happy.

Personal Achievements and Aspirations

There is a stark contrast between what I have achieved and what I still aspire to. By the age of 30, I believed I would:

Establish my own place Complete my associates of applied science (AAS) degree Own a car Be in a committed relationship

None of these goals have been realized. I currently live in a shared accommodation, don’t own a car, although I do have my driver's license, and I have earned three certificates from college but not a degree. Moreover, while I have been in four relationships throughout my twenties and one in my childhood, I am not in a romantic relationship right now. Therefore, I am not where I want to be in life.

Professional Ambitions

Professionally, I aim to advance further in my career and gain greater influence. Books and articles tell us that true fulfillment isn’t always about fulfilling every box on our to-do list. Sometimes, being happy with where we are can be its own reward.

Reflection on Life’s Journey

Looking back, one of my high school teachers used to respond to such questions with the phrase, “Behind the ‘at’! ” I was indeed surprised to find myself where I was. I have lived longer than many of my family members, maintain my mental acuity, and no longer need to wake up for work. I can sleep and nap when my body dictates, eat whatever I want, and have a variety of pastimes to keep me engaged.

Read and hug my cats Play PC solitaire Watch FBI, CIA, and international thrillers on TV Have groceries delivered Wear caftans for comfort Departure only for medical appointments or to get the mail or pick up a bouquet

While I frequently connect with family through phone and email, I predominantly focus on my own comfort and relaxation. I consider myself an 'armchair traveler' who reads about World Heritage sites, follows travel shows like Rick Steves, and explores archeology and ancient civilizations through books and documentaries.

Lifelong Learning and Personal Development

The path to life fulfillment often involves continuous learning and self-improvement. For me, this means staying curious, engaged, and open to new experiences. Perhaps the greatest joy in life is the journey itself, and every step along the way contributes to my overall happiness and contentment.

Conclusion

Where I am in life is a blend of joy, thankfulness, and humility. While I may not be where I want to be, the journey has been rich and rewarding. Each obstacle I have faced has brought me to a place of deep gratitude and a sense of blessings. Even the challenges, struggles, and the valleys I have navigated have paved the way for my current state of peace and contentment.