Debunking the Stereotype: Real Men and Assertions of Gender Inequality

There is a deeply ingrained societal belief that a real man should not hit a woman under any circumstances. However, this view is not only antiquated but also perpetuates gender inequality. According to feminist movements, such as LGBTQ rights, abortion rights, and androgyny, the notion that 'real men' should never hit women is a sexist and discriminatory argument.

The rigid adherence to this belief discriminates against those individuals who prefer to act according to their primal instincts rather than socially enforced norms. For instance, many contemporary liberal men do not shy away from standing up for themselves if provoked, a stance that often earns them scorn from traditionalist groups.

Challenging the Ideology of Male Dominance

The idea that a real man is defined by his inability to hit a woman is rooted in a belief that men are superior to women in both intellect and physical strength. This mindset is, in essence, a form of chivalric thinking where men are expected to act with an aura of superiority and to respect women by not reacting in a way that challenges this supposed superiority.

This belief often manifests in the form of dismissing threats from women or playing down attacks as harmless pranks. This can be evidenced by the behavior of certain alt-right and evangelical groups, who view any man who chooses to stand up for himself as a sign of weakness and a challenge to male dominance.

Questioning Social Norms and Gender Roles

The assertion that men should protect and provide for women while women should subordinate themselves to men is a fundamental tenet of traditional gender roles. However, these roles are not only unfair but are also being challenged by modern feminist and LGBTQ movements. These movements argue that gender equality requires acknowledging and respecting the autonomy and rights of all individuals, regardless of gender.

The concept of 'gender equality' extends beyond just the biological differences between men and women. It encompasses the equal treatment and respect for women in all aspects of life, including personal and professional settings. This means that men should not be expected to suppress their instincts or emotions, especially when they are provoked or threatened.

Rejection of Traditional Masculinity

Those who adhere to traditional masculine ideals often view criticism of their behavior as an attack on their very identity. They fear that anything that deviates from these norms is tagged with pejorative labels such as 'pussy' or 'sissy.' This fear of losing perceived masculinity is what drives them to uphold such strict norms.

It is important to recognize that masculinity is not a fixed concept but rather a social construct that varies across different cultures, societies, and times. Embracing this fluidity allows individuals to express themselves authentically without the fear of losing their identity.

Championing a New Norm

A new norm that promotes mutual respect and understanding can help to break down the barriers of male dominance and promote gender equality. This means treating all individuals with equal respect, regardless of their gender. It also means acknowledging that women should be free to assert themselves without fear of retribution and that men should be allowed to respond to provocation in a manner that feels right to them.

The rise of political correctness has not solved all these issues, but it has brought to the forefront the importance of being mindful of the language and actions that can perpetuate harmful stereotypes. By being more inclusive and open-minded, society can move closer to achieving true gender equality.

Ultimately, the debate around gender roles and equality is not about choosing sides but about finding a balanced middle ground that respects the rights and dignity of all individuals. This requires a willingness to challenge and discard outdated beliefs and to embrace a more inclusive and equitable approach to gender relations.