Evolving Through Education: Lessons from Good and Terrible Pupils

Reflecting on my journey as a student, teacher, and tutor reveals several pivotal lessons that shaped me into the educator I am today. My path as a former professor and tutor in computer science and math highlights the importance of both academic success and personal struggles in shaping one's capabilities.

From Good to Terrible Pupil

My academic experiences were as varied as they were formative. Early on, I was considered a good student, receiving mostly As with the occasional B in high school. I maintained a respectful and quiet demeanor, even if my attitude could be described as apathetic due to boredom. Occasionally, I would debate with teachers but made sure to remain respectful and engage individually.

However, my approach to studying was not as disciplined as it could have been. I did the work because I had to, but I lacked the habit of studying daily. This proved problematic as I transitioned to more challenging college classes that required consistent studying and good habits. Despite these struggles, I persevered and went on to graduate school.

Failure and Redemption

High school, on the other hand, was a different story. I almost failed out, a stark contrast to my earlier success. It wasn't until later in life, around middle age, that I decided to pursue higher education again. With renewed focus and a clearer goal, I successfully completed college and a PhD program, all with high marks. This turnaround underscores the importance of perseverance and a clear purpose.

The Role of Ease in Education

For me, school was easier than anticipated. I was placed in a gifted program, consistently on the honor roll, and even placed in an academic stream. This ease, however, was detrimental. It prevented me from developing the necessary skills and resilience needed for a career in teaching. My background as someone who always got good grades might have overshadowed the challenges that many students face.

Schools should be more than just a place to learn subject matter. They should be a place where students learn persistence, empathy, and the ability to adapt to different learning styles. The smooth sailing of my academic journey meant I didn't fully understand the struggles that many others face.

A Path Less Traveled

My family's emphasis on following the educational path of family members, especially teachers, pressured me to pursue teaching despite my initial desires to become a journalist or meteorologist. My failure to stand up for myself led to my decision to go into teaching, which ultimately became a successful career. However, it wasn't until facing challenges in my own life and in the classroom that I truly understood the complexities of education.

The practical experiences I gained during my career as a teacher, including teaching in small schools and becoming a foster parent, provided me with a more nuanced understanding of the diverse needs of students. These experiences helped me develop greater compassion, sensitivity, and a new perspective on how to teach effectively.

Teaching and Tutoring Today

Today, as a tutor and teacher, I draw on the full spectrum of my experiences. My early success in school allowed me to enter the education field, but my later struggles and the challenges I faced as a teacher helped me become a more empathetic and effective educator. This journey has taught me the importance of ongoing mentorship for new teachers and the need for university education programs to include more practical, real-world experiences.

Finding Purpose in Education

The experiences I've had as both a student and an educator have given me a deep appreciation for the role of education in shaping individuals and society. My advice to future teachers and tutors is to ride the wave of lifelong learning. Embrace the challenges and always be open to new possibilities. Success in teaching and tutoring is not just about being a good student; it's about being a lifelong learner and advocate for all students, regardless of their backgrounds.

So, if you're considering a career in education, whether as a teacher, tutor, or both, remember that the path is not always easy. But with perseverance and a willingness to learn, you can make a profound impact on the lives of your students. Welcome to the incredible journey of teaching and tutoring!