Facing Rejection: Strategies and Insights from an Armed Forces Interview

The Unexpected Path: Insights from a Unique Armed Forces Interview

When faced with the question “What if this time you didn’t get selected, what are you going to do?”, resilience, openness to feedback, and a strong commitment to finding the right opportunity were the key elements in my response. This article delves into the strategic approach to handling unexpected interview questions, providing valuable insights into how to navigate such situations.

Understanding the Motivation Behind the Question

During the interview at 4 AFSB Varanasi, the interviewer posed a series of thought-provoking questions, such as, “What if this time you didn’t get selected, what are you going to do?” This question, while unique, serves a specific purpose in the interview process. Let's explore why a university or employer might ask such a question.

Why Universities or Employers Ask About Rejection

During an employment interview, questions like these aim to:

Understand your job search progress: They want to know where you stand in your job search process and the number of options you have. Evaluate your emotional resilience: They aim to understand how you handle potential rejection and your overall attitude towards setbacks. Determine your motivation level: They gauge your level of desperation to take the position and can use this to negotiate salary.

Your response can highlight your preparedness and resilience. For example, you might say, “Well, so far the position sounds like an interesting opportunity, but I have been fortunate and do have some other opportunities in the pipeline.”

Leveraging Past Experiences: A Pilot's Aspiration

During my interview, I had the opportunity to articulate my long-term aspirations. When asked about my plans if I didn’t get selected, I replied, “Sir, I would keep trying till I get into the armed force. But the interviewer came back again with a counter question: what other than armed forces would you be trying if not selected.” This question was particularly intriguing as it pushed me to think beyond my immediate goals. I responded with a statement that showcased my interests and future ambitions, “Since you were aware that I was reading books during that time, specifically Wings of Fire, the autobiography of Dr. A.P.J. Abdul Kalam, and was preparing for the IISc exam, I said that I would be a pilot one day.”

The Importance of Strategic Responses in Job Interviews

While it's natural to have an immediate reaction to such questions, it's essential to craft a thoughtful and strategic response. Here are some key tips:

Be prepared with alternative plans: Having a clear idea of your next steps can help you respond confidently. Showcase your resilience: Emphasize your determination and flexibility in the face of rejection. Reinforce your passion: Share your aspirations and how they align with the role or organization.

Your answer doesn't have to be a surprise; it should be a well-thought-out response that aligns with your broader career goals.

Conclusion

Interviews are not just about the position at hand; they are also about your long-term career aspirations and how you handle potential setbacks. The key is to approach such questions with confidence, strategic thinking, and a clear understanding of your goals. Whether you are applying for a university or a job, being prepared to navigate unexpected questions can significantly enhance your interview experience.