Legally Requesting School No Longer Contact Parents After Turning 18: What Every Student Needs to Know

Whether you are in high school or college, it is a reasonable question to ask if, after turning 18, you can legally request that your school no longer contact your parents. This article explains the legal implications and steps involved in making such a request in the context of FERPA (Family Educational Rights and Privacy Act) and state-specific laws.

Understanding FERPA and Legal Rights

FERPA is a federal law in the United States that protects the privacy of students' educational records. When a student reaches the age of 18, they have the right to control who has access to their educational information, regardless of whether they are attending high school or college.

If a student who is still in high school—or even in college—does not want the school to contact their parents anymore, the school is legally required to cease contacting parents about the student's educational records. However, it is crucial to communicate your wishes in writing to the school. A simple email or letter can serve as evidence that you have made your request clear.

What Special Considerations Apply?

In California, the process for requesting that the school no longer contact parents is straightforward. You can legally make this request, but the school may still contact parents about your educational records until you explicitly declare that you do not want them to do so.

Another important point to consider is that if you are involved in special education meetings, the law typically transfers your rights to you once you turn 18, unless you are under a guardianship. In this case, all rights related to your education, including those from your parents, go to you.

The Importance of Education and Diploma

Your primary responsibility is to complete your high school or college education and earn your diploma. Showing up on time, paying attention, and doing the work are essential. If any meetings are about your ability to complete schoolwork or graduate on time, it is beneficial to accept the extra help offered to ensure you get it done.

The possession of a high school diploma or degree will significantly ease the way forward in terms of employment opportunities or further education. These documents are crucial for your future success.

Respecting Your Parents' Rules and House

While you have legal rights to control who the school contacts regarding your educational records, it is important to respect your parents' rules and home environment. This does not mean you need to give up all that you are, but it does mean maintaining a respectful and understanding approach to the rules they set for you.

Conclusion

Your transition to adulthood, including the right to control your educational information, is a significant milestone. While you can legally request that the school no longer contacts your parents, it is crucial to communicate your wishes clearly and keep records of these communications. This will ensure that your rights are respected and that you have the support you need to succeed in your educational endeavors.

For more specific guidance, it is always advisable to check with your school administration as practices and policies can vary by institution.