Lessons We Learn Too Late in Life: Embracing the Present
Few years back, I came across a quote that resonated deeply. It said, 'We don't want what we have. We want what we can't have. When we get what we want, we won't want it anymore.' This pursuit of happiness, so often aligned with our future aspirations, might actually be a form of mental disorder. We are so preoccupied with our 'dreamy sand castles' that we neglect the beauty of the present moment.
It is truly ironic to be living a life that we once dreamed of, yet continue to be so future-oriented that we ignore the present. Imagine if our life were shattered in an instant; what would we do with all those carefully planned future milestones? What if, in a moment of clarity, you realized you had only a limited time left with this life? How would you react to your carefully crafted roadmap?
Stuck in Ambition
We often get so caught up in our ambitions that we forget how perfect the present moment truly is. Whether we are crying over a small setback or celebrating a major achievement, we should take a moment to appreciate what we have right now. However, we often overlook the stark reality faced by many who struggle just to make ends meet.
It is not wrong to be ambitious and pursue your goals. However, it is equally important to take care of yourself. Success, like happiness, is something that should come naturally as a result of our efforts, rather than something we chase relentlessly.
Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning
Frankl's words remind us that happiness is a byproduct of a meaningful life, not a goal to be achieved at all costs. By prioritizing our well-being alongside our aspirations, we can create a more balanced and fulfilling existence.
Life's Unpredictability
Life, like basketball, is full of unexpected runs. One day, things are going great, and the next day, they aren't. This unpredictability means that both great and challenging times are part of the journey. It's often easy to forget this and panic when life doesn't go our way for days, weeks, or even months. However, life's ups and downs are completely normal and part of its natural rhythm.
There will be periods when it seems like life is deliberately setting obstacles in your path. But it's important to remember that these challenges, while difficult, are opportunities for growth and learning. Just as a basketball team eventually regains momentum, life will too.
“Success like Happiness can’t be pursued; it must ensue.”
Embracing the Present
In conclusion, let us make a conscious effort to embrace the present moment. The future is uncertain, but the present is yours to enjoy. By focusing on what we have rather than always reaching for what we think we need, we can find true contentment and happiness.
So, take a moment to look around and appreciate your current circumstances. Whether you are at home, on the go, or simply enjoying a moment, cherish it. Life is a wonderful journey, and every step, whether uphill or downhill, is a part of the path ahead.
Photography, like many other interests, can also serve as a reminder to appreciate the present moment. I sometimes enjoy capturing the beauty around me, reminding myself to live in the here and now.
Embrace the Present. Live each moment with intention and gratitude.