Living Christianity in a Public School: Practical Ways to Preach Without Words
In the words of St. Francis of Assisi, 'Preach the Gospel at all times and when necessary use words.' This aphorism has profound implications for educators in a public school setting. While Christianity may not be formally taught in public schools, the influence of Christian values is often felt through the actions and attitudes of teachers. This article explores practical ways to integrate Christian behavior into one's teaching without directly preaching.
Pray Every Day
Before each workday, consider taking a few moments to pray. This prayer is an act of devotion, a reminder that serving students is an opportunity to serve God. Every teacher starts the day with different thoughts and intentions, but a prayer can set the stage for a day focused on love and service. Here's an example:
'Lord, today as I serve my students and their families, may my actions reflect your love and grace. Help me to be a catalyst for your presence in these young lives. Amen.'
This simple practice can transform an ordinary day into a sacred one.
Choose to Love the Difficult Kids
Every school has those students who seem resistant to love and kindness. Yet, choosing to see the beauty and worth in these children is a powerful act of faith. Matthew 25:40 reminds us, 'in so far as you did this to one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did it to me.' By loving these students, you are not only teaching them about love but also reinforcing the belief that every human being, no matter how challenging, is created in the image of God.
One way to instill this attitude is to look the child in the eye, see them as someone valued and loved, and act accordingly. Even a simple smile or a kind word can make a significant difference in their day.
Delight in Each Child’s Individuality
As a critical and analytical person, it’s easy to scrutinize students and evaluate their behavior. However, constantly 'squinting' can lead to a missed opportunity to truly see each child as a unique individual. Instead, make an effort to look at each child with 'soft eyes' - genuinely and affectionately. Take delight in their strengths and unique qualities, even if they are struggling behaviorally.
The next time a child annoys you, take a step back and appreciate their presence. A simple smile or acknowledgment can show that you care and that they are more than their behavior. This perspective fosters a positive and supportive classroom environment.
Have a Gentle and Forgiving Heart
Every morning, start fresh with a forgiving heart. Each student enters the classroom with the potential for a new day, and your attitude can shape their experience. Refrain from holding grudges and focus on offering second chances and understanding. For instance, if a student causes a small mess, offer help with a smile, demonstrating that you are there to assist, not just enforce rules.
By maintaining a gentle and forgiving heart, you create a safe and nurturing environment where students feel understood and valued.
Give Help Unwillingly with Love and Gratitude
When faced with a challenging situation, such as helping a messy student clean their lunchbox, remember that these moments are opportunities to serve. Even if the task is not your problem, approach it with a good attitude and a spirit of service.
For example, when a student spills their yogurt, you might think, 'This isn’t my responsibility, but if I’m going to do it, I might as well do it with a smile and kindness.' This mindset transforms the task from a chore into a loving act, reinforcing the values of kindness and service.
Show Mercy
Accountability is essential, but so is mercy. As teachers, we must hold students accountable for their actions, but there should be times when we show mercy. This doesn’t mean letting students off the hook entirely, but rather being flexible and compassionate, especially in minor infractions.
For instance, instead of applying the strict standard operating procedure, you might choose to overlook a small mistake or offer assistance. This balance between accountability and mercy helps foster a positive and nurturing learning environment.
In conclusion, living Christianity in a public school is about embodying its principles through daily actions. By starting each day with prayer, loving the difficult, delighting in each child, having a forgiving heart, and showing mercy, you can create a classroom that reflects the best of Christian values.
Key Points:
Pray daily to set your intentions. Choose to love difficult students and act accordingly. Delight in each child’s unique qualities. Start each day with a forgiving heart. Show both accountability and mercy.By integrating these practices into your daily routine, you can live your faith and influence the lives of your students in meaningful ways.