Mistakes in the Military: Lessons Learned by a Former Soldier

Entering the military can be one of the most defining and impactful moments in a young person's life. It offers a structured environment and a sense of purpose, but it can also be fraught with challenges and potential mistakes. This article delves into two significant mistakes that can severely impact a soldier's career and mental health, based on a first-person account from a veteran.

Combat Stress and Mental Health Challenges

During my service in the Libyan conflict, I faced one of the most significant challenges in my military career. One night, while on a mission, I was almost accidently shot by a fellow soldier. This blue on blue incident led to serious mental health issues, including anxiety attacks. Despite these struggles, I sought help by raising my hand and asking for assistance. However, the response from the Navy was less than ideal.

In the Navy, there was a marked lack of understanding regarding the mental health needs of returning soldiers. For six months, I was advised to simply see a doctor and get back to flying within no time. It wasn't until I was called out to participate in a squadron exercise that I was quickly sent back to my home base after just hours. Of the dozens of medical evaluations, only one medic, who led the medical review board, took the time to actually address my concerns. This delay in proper diagnosis and treatment led to a PTSD diagnosis after a full year, but one that came too late to prevent the development of other serious mental health conditions such as depressive disorder, generalized anxiety disorder, and panic attacks.

The story of my struggle highlights the importance of recognizing and addressing mental health issues in the military. Soldiers often hesitate to seek help due to stigma, but it's crucial to prioritize mental well-being. Mistakes in not addressing mental health can lead to long-term consequences, as seen in my experience.

Respecting Military Laws and Regulations

While mental health issues are critical, avoiding legal troubles is equally important for a successful military career. The tried and tested answer is never to share a trench with someone who is braver than you are—that lesson was illustrated vividly in the movie Platoon. However, more seriously, one must avoid breaking military laws at all costs. Complying with military regulations ensures a safer and more stable environment for all service members.

Committing serious offenses such as assault or, in recent times, sexual assault, can lead to severe consequences, including jail time and expulsion. These actions not only damage your career but also tarnish the reputation of your fellow soldiers and the military forces. Being the kind of person your peers can trust and rely on is essential for building a successful career in the military.

Young troops are often faced with mistakes early in their careers, but it's crucial to face the music and learn from these experiences. Staying on the right path and respecting military laws can lead to a fulfilling and rewarding career that offers respect and opportunities for personal growth.

Conclusion

The military offers a unique opportunity for personal and professional growth, but it's full of challenges and potential mistakes. By understanding and addressing mental health issues early on and avoiding legal troubles, soldiers can contribute positively to their military communities and build a successful career.