Introduction
The Situation
The JEE Mains is one of the most significant exams for aspiring engineering students in India. This year, we see a lot of students facing the reality of not qualifying for the coveted spots. In this article, we explore the story of an aspiring engineer who had to cope with failure and the challenges it brings.
2017: A Journey Unprepared
Back in 2017, the author, who was not quite prepared for competitive exams, aimed for a decent performance in their board exams where they felt they succeeded. A score of 87 was considered good enough for them. However, after the JEE Main exams, it was clear their preparation was insufficient, resulting in a score of 48 and an unqualified result. Despite applying to other entrance exams like UPSEE and IPU CET, they did not secure good ranks and decided to give a drop.
2018: A Reassuring but Disappointing Year
After the drop, the author studied rigorously, attending coaching classes almost daily. However, the 2018 JEE Main exams presented a mixed feeling. An offline exam, followed by an online exam for which they scored 140, much higher than their previous score of 44. When the results came out, the author was shattered. They felt they had let down their parents and their hard-earned money. The additional stress from poor performance in other exams like VITEEE and UPSEEE further added to their disappointment.
Current Challenges and Coping Mechanisms
The author is now applying for the BITSAT, their last hope after two consecutive failures. Despite losing confidence, they are determined to give it their best shot. However, the ongoing stress has taken a toll, including emotional and physical distress, and they are experiencing a fear of suicide. Here, we discuss coping mechanisms, counseling, and resources for students facing similar challenges.
Seeking Help and Support
It is crucial to recognize that the author’s situation is severe and needs immediate attention. If you or someone you know is struggling with thoughts of suicide, it is essential to seek professional help immediately. Organizations like the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline in the US and similar national resources in India can provide the necessary support.
Conclusion
While aspiring to succeed in the JEE Mains is admirable, it is equally important to maintain a balanced approach to life and mental well-being. Students who feel overwhelmed by academic pressures should seek support from mentors, counselors, and friends. The shared stories of those who have overcome similar challenges highlight the importance of a supportive and understanding environment.