Parenting Strategies to Prevent Criminal Behavior in Children

I can already hear the wolves snarling at my door… Irsquo;m gonna get hit full force with bad comments. BUT. I was raised in a Christian home and I am raising my children in a Christian home. The influence of our youth pastor along with other Christian youth has had an enormous effect on young teens. When... Thatrsquo;s why I believe strongly in the motto 'parents model behavior for their children. This means that children are like a blank canvas, absorbing the traits they see in their parents. If parents exhibit bad behaviors, they cannot reasonably expect their children to be any better.

Modeling Behavior

Modeling behavior is a critical aspect of child rearing. Children imitate the behavior of their parents. Therefore, if a parent engages in criminal activities or other undesirable behaviors, these actions are likely to be mirrored by their children. Parents who display good behavior provide a healthy example for their children to follow.

Moreover, parents must be sane to start with. This means maintaining mental and emotional health. Consistency is key. Parents need to be on the same page regarding values and the strategies they use to address challenging situations. When children try to test the boundaries, it is normal and necessary. It gives them a sense of stability.

Being Rational About Incidents

It is unwise to overreact to incidents such as lying or petty theft. Such reactions often have a counterproductive effect. Instead, it is better to address these issues rationally. For example, explaining why certain behaviors are unacceptable and setting clear expectations can be more effective than shouting or resorting to physical punishments. Throwing religious morality at children without understanding or consistency can lead to rebellion.

Developing Values and Morals

Children must learn respect for people and property, and the difference between right and wrong. This is not just about inculcating religious morals but also about developing moral strength and character. Leading by example is crucial. Children learn a lot by observation, so parents should practice what they preach.

Friend Groups and Peer Influence

Your friend group can significantly impact your childrsquo;s behavior. If the friend group is made up of juvenile delinquents, it is important to take action. My friend group was entirely made up of juvenile delinquents, and despite it being a challenging period, I found my way back. Your already doing the most important part. You actually care. By the time your friendsrsquo; parents or your parents cared, it was too late. Providing enough freedom to avoid rebellion is crucial, but sufficient supervision is necessary to prevent drug use and underage drinking. It is a fine line to walk.

Education and Support

Discussing the importance of education is vital, but parents should not make children feel doomed if they fail. It is all about balance. One approach is too strict, and the other is just enabling. If you ever get a call from a school official or the police, realize your child may have done it. Being in denial is a common mistake. I hope this advice helps.