Preferred Terminology Among LGBTQ Individuals: Gay, Lesbian, or Homosexual?
In recent decades, the language and terminology used to describe individuals who identify as part of the LGBTQ community have evolved significantly. Terms like homosexual, gay, and lesbian are all used, but each carries its own unique connotations and preferences among the LGBTQ community.
Individual Preferences
On a personal note, I identify as being mostly gay/homosexual, and I am perfectly fine with being called either term. However, I take it a step further and prefer to be called queer. For me, the term queer encompasses a broader and more inclusive understanding of my identity than the more specific terms.
The prevailing trend among most LGBTQ individuals, including myself, is to use the terms gay and lesbian. These terms are generally preferred because they are seen as less clinical or medical and more reflective of a person's diverse experiences.
Historical Context
The term homosexual is rooted in medical and psychiatric definitions. Historically, it was used to describe individuals who primarily experienced romantic or sexual attractions to members of the same sex. While accurate from a medical standpoint, the term is now often viewed as outdated or even derogatory in certain contexts.
When discussing gay history or pre-1960 events, the term homosexual is sometimes appropriate. However, the history of the LGBTQ movement is marked by significant shifts in language and terminology, reflecting a broader liberation from medical stigmatization.
The term lesbian has roots dating back to the late 19th century. While it has its place in the historical narrative, many women prefer to discuss its usage within their own context and experiences.
Language and Labeling
Many LGBTQ individuals, myself included, find the term homosexual too clinical or outdated. It often evokes memories of a time when homosexuality was viewed as a mental illness. Today, this term is frequently used by people who are opposed to LGBTQ rights, particularly those with religious affiliations.
As a bisexual person, I do not see myself as needing a label. My identity is a part of who I am, and it's not defined or limited by a set term. Yet, if someone feels the need to label me, I am open to any term they would like to apply.
The fluidity of sexual orientation can complicate labeling. For example, if I am with a woman, I may feel straight due to the nature of the relationship. When I am with a man, I may identify as homosexual. The term trisexual can sometimes be used, but it is rarely necessary and can be seen as overly complex or self-defeating.
The Power of Language
Language plays a crucial role in the way LGBTQ individuals are perceived and understood. Terms like gay and lesbian have been reclaimed and used to assert self-identity and pride. The word homosexual, while still correct, often carries a negative connotation due to its historical use in a medical and stigmatized context.
One of the most significant cultural shifts in the LGBTQ community was seen in 1971 with the film Nicht der Homosexuelle ist pervers sondern die Situation in der er lebt. In 1972, the HAW - Homosexuelle Aktion Westberlin, a group that started as a response to this film, began to use the terms gay and lesbian.
A notable event in this shift was the "kiss-in" at Café Kranzler on Kurfürstendamm. This event, organized by the group, involved individuals kissing each other regardless of gender. The act was both symbolic and practical, aiming to assert the existence and validity of LGBTQ individuals in society.
Overall, the choice of terminology reflects a broader movement towards reclaiming language that is more accurate, inclusive, and free from stigma. The term homosexual remains in use but is generally perceived as outdated or stigmatized, while gay and lesbian are seen as more relevant, diverse, and empowering terms for many within the LGBTQ community.