The Diverse Path of Success: Insights from High School Classmates
Reflections from the different journeys of success taken by high school classmates highlight the multifaceted nature of what it means to be 'successful.' This article explores various paths taken by former classmates, illustrating that success can be measured in different ways, including professional achievements, personal growth, and contributions to society.
Varied Definitions of Success
Success can be defined in many different ways. For some, success might mean earning millions, leading a company, or giving a TED talk. For many others, it could be raising a family, making a significant impact in their career, or making a positive difference in the world. While for me, success is about resilience—falling down seven times and getting up eight.
One of the anecdotes I often share is that of being voted 'Most Likely to Succeed' as a high school student, but my actual career path led to a Bachelor’s of Science degree in psychology. This example highlights how our peers and ourselves sometimes have different perceptions of success.
Professional Successes and Challenges
While some former classmates have achieved financial success, such as becoming a veterinarian or a dentist, others have found satisfaction in other areas. For instance, one former classmate now serves as a Hollywood Director, having worked on well-known films and series in the Marvel universe and other science fiction genres. Another recently retired former classmate served as a State Senator, while another took the judicial path, becoming a Supreme Court Judge.
Personal and Social Contributions
Social and personal achievements also play a significant role in defining success. Some classmates have made a difference in less conventional but equally impactful ways. For example, one played soccer for a major team, another became a best-selling novelist, and another taught in developing countries. Another became the Mayor of their town, demonstrating a strong commitment to community service.
A Personal Journey of Success
A former classmate, who once had a reported investment company valued at 100 million, is still active in the investment business without any children to leave behind. Another classmate known for his work in adding to the human gene pool has 20 descendants, comprising four children, ten grandchildren, and six great-grandchildren. Despite his current focus, it suggests the value placed on progeny and familial ties.
The Broader Perspective
It is interesting to see how our values and definitions of success have changed over time. According to Darrell Bricker and John Ibbitson in their book 'Empty Planet: The Shock of Global Population Decline,' people are increasingly valuing money but also family and loved ones, reflecting the finite nature of our existence.
Just as only a few classmates made it to college, it is important to acknowledge and be proud of those who have finished what they started, regardless of their path.
In conclusion, success is a highly personal and subjective concept. It is about making a mark in the world, whether through professional achievements, personal growth, or social contributions. Each former classmate's journey is unique and valuable, highlighting the diversity of success.
Let us embrace the multifaceted nature of success and be proud of the individuals who have navigated their unique paths with resilience and determination.