The Pain of Missing Out: How the 2020 Pandemic Impacted Our Graduation Ceremonies and Personal Growth

Brief Background on the Impact of Graduation Cancellations

This year, the world faced a unique challenge that dramatically altered typical celebrations. The cancellation of high school graduations in 2020 is a poignant reminder of how unexpected events can overshadow milestone moments. For me, witnessing the disappointment on my younger brother's face was a stark wake-up call about the importance of these rites of passage.

My Brother's Experience and Feelings

My brother, who has been to numerous family graduations, was looking forward to having his own special moment. The excitement was palpable, knowing that he would finally walk the stage, don the cap and gown, and have his name yelled from the audience at top decibel levels. However, like many other families, we met with the frustration of canceled plans. The pain of missing out particularly hit home as we reflected on all the graduations he had attended in the past.

Personal Reflection: Overcoming Challenges and Finding Strength

Years ago, I too faced my own set of challenges. As a freshman at a big public school in Houston, I was often a target of bullying and ridicule. Despite gaining some supportive friends during my middle school years, my emotional well-being was severely affected. I found solace in soccer and any semblance of routine, but the strain was evident in my grades and attendance.

The situation changed dramatically when we moved to the Rio Grande Valley. This new environment, though unexpected, provided a turning point. In a brand new school, I found a sense of belonging and encouragement that was previously absent. My teachers and classmates empowered me, and I discovered a new passion for helping others. Their unwavering support helped me grow into the person I am today.

Haunting Memories and Lessons Learned

The sudden cancellation of school felt like a betrayal to all the positive memories we had built up. Simple moments like playing cards before class, practicing soccer on the field, and grabbing candy from the counselor's jar seemed trivial in the face of absence. These memories, though bittersweet, serve as a reminder of the importance of cherishing personal connections and the supportive environment we create for ourselves.

Advice for Future Grads

To all those facing another year of uncertainty, take a moment to appreciate the people and places that enrich your life. Cherish your school, your family, and your friendships. There is no guarantee that these moments will last, and it's in times of worry that we need to lean on each other. Love yourself, believe in your worth, and never let others bring you down. You are capable of achieving great things, and the support of those around you can make all the difference.