The Unique Experience of Being Treated Like a Baby as an Adult
Today, many adults have reflect on the unique journeys of their formative years and collectibles, with some expressing a desire to return to their childhood through the lens of a life filled with the innocence and simplicity of being treated like a baby. This article explores the emotional and practical aspects of being cared for like a baby in adulthood.
Childhood Memories: Being Treated Like a Baby
When we were children, there were two primary scenarios where we might have been treated as babies due to the use of diapers. In the first scenario, we were often in diapers during outings where supposing to be independent for the day was not the norm. During such times, we were grouped alongside other toddlers, with our parents checking and changing our diapers as they would for the other children. This made us feel both part of a group and a baby by proxy.
During the second scenario, diaper changes were performed when accidents happened. If we waited too long and had an accident, we received the full diaper change treatment. Our parents or caregivers engaged in a lot of baby talk and were particularly attentive, which, while caring, could also feel humiliating at times.
Adult Perspectives on Being Treated Like a Baby
The experience of being treated as a baby doesn't fade with time. For many adults, particularly those who faced childhood challenges, the desire to return to a carefree, simple life of being treated like a baby can be a strong one. Some find comfort in routines and the routine diaper changes performed by their personal care assistants (PCAs).
Adults with Special Needs or Disabilities
For individuals with disabilities, such as Cerebral Palsy and learning disabilities, the experience of being treated like a baby can be both a comfort and a challenge. As a child diagnosed with Cerebral Palsy, I was treated as a one-year-old regardless of my actual age. When I was 5, I expressed a desire to return to being treated like a baby, and my parents even transformed my bedroom back into a baby's room, complete with stuffed animals and toys. This move provided a nurturing and familiar environment that I longed for.
Personal Care Assistant Experience
As an adult with specific needs, my PCA plays a significant role in my daily life. My PCA is responsible for everything from dressing me to taking me on outings and ensuring my entertainment. The PCA care plan includes everything from changing my clothing, including diapers and pajamas, to organizing activities such as movie nights, picnics, and trips to the beach. These tasks are carried out with an enthusiastic and carefree attitude, which can sometimes feel like being treated like a baby.
The Challenges and Blessings
Despite the many blessings of being treated like a baby, there are also challenges. For instance, some of my PCAs treat me like a baby boy, which can be both endearing and slightly insulting. Specific examples include them cutting my food into small pieces, choosing finger food, and pushing my manual wheelchair with one hand while walking beside me. These choices reflect a need to ensure my safety but can also feel patronizing.
Conclusion
While being treated like a baby may not be the desired reality for most adults, for some, it brings comfort, simplicity, and a connection to their happier childhood memories. The care and attention of personal care assistants play a significant role in this process, offering both practical support and emotional solace. Whether it's through routine diaper changes, carefree outings, or simple baby talk, being treated like a baby can provide a unique sense of security and joy in life.