The Experience of Taking a Gap Year During College
The Challenge: Dealing with Tough Academic, Personal, and Social Struggles
I took a gap year halfway through my academic journey during college. This decision was not an easy one, as it was my final year, and I had faced numerous challenges that had left me feeling overwhelmed and defeated. Despite my struggle to find a major and the unexpected illness and break up that further complicated my senior year, I recognized the need to take a break from the pressures of academia.
Experiencing a Break from the Norm
The year off was a fantastic opportunity for self-reflection and personal growth. I studied abroad in three countries and visited several more, making friends from diverse backgrounds. These friendships are still strong today, and I remain in contact with many of them. Most importantly, taking this break allowed me to rediscover my happiness and regain a sense of balance in my life.
During this time, I was battling depression and fatigue from my ongoing struggles. The year off proved incredibly valuable, not only for my personal well-being but also for helping me to reflect on my choices and the direction of my life. It wasn't until I took this gap year that I truly understood the importance of happiness and self-care.
Regret and Reflection
Although my gap year delayed my graduation, I do not regret the decision. The experiences I accumulated during those six months of travel and study abroad have a value that far exceeds the conventional academic years. They were the most fulfilling experiences of my life, and I hope to continue to have more such adventures in the future. If not, I can appreciate that these experiences are valuable and cannot be replicated later in life.
The Importance of a Gap Year
While I encourage everyone to consider a gap year, especially during times when things aren't working out, I understand that not everyone can pursue the same opportunities. Studying abroad can be a significant financial and logistical challenge for many. However, the core idea behind taking a gap year—experiencing a break from the norm to reassess one's goals and direction in life—is applicable to anyone facing similar challenges.
In today's world, the concept of taking a break is no longer confined to college students. Adults who find that their jobs or life situations are unsatisfactory often consider taking a break, trying new experiences, or making necessary changes. This is an important aspect of life, as it requires us to recognize when things aren't working out and to take action to improve our lives.
Conclusion
As a college student, you still need to complete your degree, but you have the freedom and agency over your life to make meaningful changes and pursue your passions. Embrace the idea of a gap year and take the time you need to rediscover yourself and your goals. Life is too short to be constrained by the expectations of others or the demands of an unfulfilling routine.