Understanding Cisgender Identity: Misconceptions and Realities

In the ongoing conversation about gender identity, the term 'cisgender' has become increasingly common. However, misunderstandings about this concept can lead to significant social and personal misunderstandings. This article aims to clarify what it means to be cisgender and address some of the misconceptions.

Defining Cisgender

The word 'cisgender' is derived from Latin, meaning 'on the same side.' When you are born and have a sense of gender identity that aligns with the sex assigned to you at birth, you are considered cisgender. It's a straightforward experience for many people, as they do not feel the need to explore or transition to another gender.

For example:

“How do I turn cisgender? The same way I can turn trans or gay.
I can’t.
Same way you make bread out of toast. You don’t. ”

Here, the individual is emphasizing that cisgender identity is innate and does not require any effort or change.

Cisgender vs. Transgender

It is essential to differentiate between cisgender and transgender identities. Being cisgender means identifying with the gender you were assigned at birth. In contrast, being transgender means identifying with a gender that is different from the one you were assigned at birth. The experience of being transgender can involve gender dysphoria, a discomfort or distress that arises when there is a mismatch between a person's gender identity and birth-assigned sex.

Common Misconceptions

There are several misconceptions regarding cisgender identity that need to be addressed:

The Non-Existence Debate

The claim that 'there is no such thing as cisgender' is a misconception. Cisgender is a valid and important term used in discussions about gender identity. The term helps to highlight the difference between those who accept their birth-assigned gender and those who don't.

“There is no such thing as cis gender. Cis is bullying. Who gave these minority group of people the permission to suddenly start addressing us all in this manner? I find the thought process behind it and the reasoning more offensive than the word. They can call themselves what ever they want but these narcissists can’t start calling US whatever THEY choose to call us and expect us to use their language. It is nothing but Bullying.”

This statement reflects a strong preference for the use of language that the speaker feels is respectful and inclusive.

Desire for Change

Another misconception is that one can 'become' cisgender. Gender is not something that can be turned on or off like a switch. It is an internal, deeply felt sense of identity. Some people are aware from a very young age that their gender identity aligns with their birth-assigned sex, while others may not be as certain or may undergo a journey of self-discovery.

“You can’t.
It needs to be something that you are born as.”

This quote emphasizes the innate and lifelong nature of cisgender identity.

Support and Empathy

While empathy and support are crucial for all gender identities, it is important to recognize that the experiences of trans and cisgender people can be unique. Many cisgender individuals may wish to support their transgender friends and colleagues, but it's crucial to approach this support with education and awareness:

“One cannot and it is not even desirable. This is something which evolves within oneself usually at a very early age but sometimes not. If you prefer to be sympathetic to us we can certainly use your support. As a trans woman without a developmental intersex condition we are the most discriminated group of persons on the planet. Many trans women themselves ARE not supportive of us so if you are able to be through research through contact with us by being a compassionate person we more than welcome you!!”

This statement highlights the importance of genuine support, based on an understanding of diverse experiences, rather than a one-size-fits-all approach.

Conclusion

Understanding and respecting the concept of cisgender identity is crucial for fostering a more inclusive and supportive society. It is important to acknowledge and respect the differences in gender identities, and engage in open and respectful dialogue to bridge understanding and empathy.