Exploring High School Experiences: What Would I Change and Why
Looking back, I often wonder if I had made different choices during my high school days what would have been different in my life. As I reflect on my past, several areas stand out as opportunities for a more fulfilling and authentic journey.
Avoiding Early Masking and Authenticity
When I compare my senior year to my previous years, I realize with hindsight that being more true to myself from the start could have brought more happiness. Spending a week at the United States Military Academy in West Point before senior year opened my eyes to the importance of authenticity. Instead of worrying about what others thought, I should have embraced my true self from the beginning. If I had stopped masking sooner, I might have had even more fun and a greater sense of fulfillment during high school.
Another significant opportunity I missed was exploring my interest in Magic: the Gathering. If I had started playing and judging in high school, I might have reached L3 and discovered the intricacies of card collecting. Plus, I would have started building a collection of rare cards that would have appreciated in value over the years.
Transitions and Personal Growth
The most profound change I would make is related to my transgender identity. At 13 during middle school, I became aware of being transgender and could have transitioned back then. Instead, I delayed it until my early 20s when transitioning finally felt like a viable option. Transitioning earlier might have affected several aspects of my life: Finding a prom date: In the '90s, it might have been challenging for a transgender girl to go to prom with a boyfriend, but with the right support, it could have been a unique and memorable experience. Learning from my grandmothers: Transitioning earlier would have allowed me to learn cooking skills from both my maternal and paternal grandmothers, fostering a stronger relationship with my mom’s side of the family. Emotional well-being: Starting the transition earlier would have provided emotional support andValidator: Constitutional, legal, and medical aspects need to be considered here as well, which is not fully covered in the given text. This is a complex personal and legal matter. College and career: Although my choice of college might not have changed (New College), it could have led to a more fulfilling and consistent relationship with my peers and professors.
Lessons Learned and Future Reflections
Reflecting on these missed opportunities, I realize the importance of authenticity, planning for the long term, and seeking support. Whether it's about embracing your true self, pursuing a passion, or making significant life changes, the lessons learned from these experiences can guide and inspire future generations to make choices that align with their true goals and visions.