Why Remain Outside Mensa: A Critique and Reflection
Many individuals ponder the significance of joining elite organizations like Mensa, an international organization for high-IQ individuals. My personal journey, however, has led me to question whether such memberships always align with one's long-term values and aspirations. In this article, I will explore why I chose not to join Mensa, outlining my experiences and personal beliefs that guided this decision.
The Philosophy Behind Mensa
Mensa was formed with the goal of bringing together people with high IQs for mutual benefit and intellectual exchange. However, my decision to remain outside its ranks stemmed from a variety of moral and personal considerations. Joining Mensa would mean becoming part of a community that, according to some of its members, views the lower IQ population with disdain and even proposes extreme measures such as sterilization (an argument that falls under the umbrella of eugenics).
The Personal Experience and Woes
Several years ago, I was invited by a woman who believed in restricting the reproduction rights of individuals with lower IQs. This individual not only promoted such regressive and harmful ideologies but also seemed to have a dismissive attitude towards those with below-average intelligence. Her close friends in Mensa shared similar views, and the thought of interacting with them was unsettling.
During one particular instance, the woman and her two close Mensa friends were scheduled to visit my house for a Thanksgiving dinner. The journey, however, was fraught with challenges. The driver, who was tasked with picking them up, encountered numerous issues, including running out of gas three times before even leaving the city. He was attempting to find a cheaper gasoline station, which added to the chaos.
Alternatives and Personal Values
Instead of joining Mensa, I sought out groups that aligned with my personal values and aspirations. I was looking for communities that used collective intelligence for meaningful purposes beyond mere self-congratulation. My experience 30 years ago, while formative, may not reflect the current dynamics of the organization. Many such clubs and associations exist today, fostering environments that encourage mutual respect and collaborative problem-solving.
Self-Improvement and Growth
Joining a community with the explicit goal of maintaining a high IQ can sometimes detract from the potential for personal and intellectual growth. While intellectual acuity is valuable, it is equally important to cultivate empathy, kindness, and an understanding of diverse perspectives. Engaging with a wide array of individuals, including those with varying levels of intelligence, can enrich one's understanding of the world and enhance personal growth.
Conclusion
The decision to remain outside Mensa is a complex one, influenced by personal history, ethical beliefs, and a broader perspective on self-improvement. While high-IQ circles can offer intellectual stimulation and camaraderie, the underlying ideologies and behavior of some of its members may not align with my values. In the end, my journey has shown me that personal integrity, mutual respect, and constructive engagement with diverse communities hold greater value in the pursuit of meaningful connections and growth.